Boyfriend called me fat. My boyfriend called me fat, not in an insulting way. He was feeling kind of sad and wants me to join a gym. How should I react to this? 2019-01-14

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How to React if Your Husband Calls You Fat: 12 Steps

boyfriend called me fat

Always accusing me of having a man in the apt with me or flirting with one. Visualize something positive in your life, rather than focusing on what your husband just said. Just as you said, anyone who has ever said anything about my weight my whole life which really has only been a few-including my grandmother! I am just reading your article as this has just happened to me. This is the most i have ever ever weighed and i am ashamed of my weight and looks and that i let it get this far. When do I have time for a work out? As in the first warning sign calling names is about control and humiliation.


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My boyfriend called me fat, not in an insulting way. He was feeling kind of sad and wants me to join a gym. How should I react to this?

boyfriend called me fat

Forget what your ex said, and accept yourself. As I got older having 3 children the comments became more and more abusive. Thank you for bringing this to light Hugs to you beautiful! You are a strong and amazing woman. Let your boyfriend see you and I'm sure he will be very happy. I am not blaming anyone in this relationship or anyone. We all have our areas that are harder than others. I am a size 4 with a body mass index of 23.

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boyfriend called me fat

Please be aware that these comments are for informational purposes only; we cannot verify the validity of each individual comment. He also suggested I follow this girl he knows that has had 4 kids, and work out the way he thinks I should. What doesnt kill us makes us stronger. You are who you are, and you only have one life to enjoy, so enjoy it. Please know you will too. I feel so stuck, very sad. This sub is about helping people in need - If you are not providing such help i.

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How do I get over my ex calling me fat?

boyfriend called me fat

I would definitely take some time to explore what it is you want and how you want to feel. She said a couple of other things about her body parts and went on to talk about something else. Sometimes we end up being a mix of genes that was unexpected and people think that they can shame you for that your whole life. Yes I have taken weight off with Weight Watchers and other programs but that was on my terms not his! He tells me I am being closed minded or lazy. Almost immediately he regretted it. We went along with what she said but it was the oddest thing-getting lectured by a total stranger. My husband is pretty clueless about how and what he is saying in general, and especially in regards to this topic.

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My boyfriend sometimes calls me fat, which makes me cry, and brings out my insecurities, I am driving him away, what can I do to build my self

boyfriend called me fat

I remember him saying something then about name calling not mattering. That is what makes this all the more disappointing. And if you feel that way look in the mirror in your favorite itsy bitsy bikini. He usually shows affection when he drinks not when hes not drinking I finally go to be able to trust him…hes 2 yrs younger than I am. You have to become happy with yourself. When I burst into tears, he asked: 'Is that a yes? That being said, I feel really comfortable with him. You can do this- I believe in you.

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What to do when your man insinuates you could lose a few

boyfriend called me fat

Your new boyfriend obviously appreciates your body. You are and will always be enough. We need to let our intuition guide us, redirect us to peace and happiness. Also- take some time for just you. I want your advice on what should I do to tell him to back off without getting another arguement with him. If you don't like that format, don't post here.

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How do I get over my ex calling me fat?

boyfriend called me fat

I was embarrassing, or so on. The fact that this happened in an argument is really no excuse. This man has lived in the system as long as I known him. As a student and teacher of A Course In Miracles I regard every button pushed as a direction where more healing is needed. I have gained weight and it is so hard to lose for the past 2 years. And every time they make a comment I respond emotionally and also beat myself up emotionally. I am honestly telling you: if you tease me again about my midwestern oil using, use jokes to bring up our worst fight, or tell me what to do or how I should be eating, I will leave this relationship and be perfectly content to continue looking for a real man who will treat me with respect and loving kindness.

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My boyfriend called me fat, not in an insulting way. He was feeling kind of sad and wants me to join a gym. How should I react to this?

boyfriend called me fat

Anything you do to move towards greater wellness, fun, and radiance is just exactly perfect and your body and soul will respond to what works for you. Second, the best way to broach it is with love. Every day since I have been with him has been a rollercoaster. I held on this long cos I loved him. You should have a pretty good idea of what you really look like. It started innocently enough and it got worse.


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My boyfriend called me fat and told me my body disgusts him while we were having an argument. I'm a size 4 and he knows I struggled with anorexia, even though it was a while ago. Is this forgivable at all or should I break up with him?

boyfriend called me fat

She makes it seem like it is not a big deal and that this entire situation is entirely his fault, which is ridiculous. She should dump him for his complete lack of respect. This has now grown into little tangent conversations that always make me feel that they are insinuating things about me. Someone who has struggled with eating disorders and body image issues in the past hearing from everyone around her that she was now fat…well, it really could have destroyed me. He eats junk, and drinks beer. How do I get more rose-coloring in my glasses? I am 48, not 18.

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Best friend called me fat...

boyfriend called me fat

He was in foster care, and as time went on it turned into prison. Sending you the biggest virtual hug. I will be so much happier living alone. If there are ways for him to support you in doing that, let him know what is and is not acceptable. Do you want more romance? It is nice to listen to others who have experience similar things.

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