It was a status thing. At YouPorn we strive to give you the best of the best with our ever expanding database that is filled with the hottest babes who truly understand how a simple thing like French kissing can go a long way in a steamy scene! I wanted to be seen as a powerfully sexy girl and I wanted the attention of all the men in the room. Remember that the main study described in this post involved women's self-reports. And, although this behavior is associated with costs feeling degraded and objectified , they are still often in privileged positions. If the display by male or female 'worked' , if they achieved what they set out to achieve, well then they'll probably feel empowered.
I like the shock and excitement it gives him. Enjoy the intimacy, pleasure and fun of it. Having him watch me get felt up by another girl just turns me on. So, while it may be true that men aren't likely to make out with their bestie at a party in order to titillate the ladies, it's completely untrue that women aren't into such 'objectifying' displays. A girl, who has a boyfriend, made out with another girl the night before at a party. If a man initiates then the value judged is bad, but if they do it's always good. Often being the object of desire comes with its own sense of power.
It is my opinion that the original feminist message was subverted, from a move to equality to one for power and control. That women buy into this and perpetuate it irks me because they seem to not understand what it's doing to them, prolonging the agony so to speak. When we see hot girls kissing, we naturally wonder if they would let us join in. Many videos also feature kissing, sucking sounds, licking and girlfriend roleplay! It is normal sexual behavior used by both men and women. I've never felt degraded by this behaviour, because it is behaviour I control.
Another strange behavior is this trend of women divorcing their husband between ages 40-50 as soon as the kids are out of the nest and proclaiming they are lesbian then getting mad at true lifelong lesbians for not accepting them. Something else going on is some of these straight girls will take it a step further and experiment sexually with other young women who already identify as lesbian. As a species we are incredibly sexually repressed, both men and women, by cultural expectations of behavior. I kiss a girl because I want her, and hope she wants me. Girls Kissing Girls is not an Equal Rights issue, or a Gender Equality issue.
I felt she was trying to get all the guys attention not mine. Two reasons initially come to mind. But let's be real: you can always improve upon the art of lip-locking. Do girls even know who they are? Copyright 2012 by Sarah J. This research contributes to a growing area of study in psychology with investigators examining when and why women engage in a behavior coined self-sexualization. Try to kiss the girl as often and as long as possible while your boss is distracted by the phone.
This is why I said before that what I'd really like to see is the feminist speak be directed, through the media, as that is where the change will occur quickest, that feminine viewpoints, interests, behaviors etc are to be celebrated, and mimic is the most sincere form of flattery, and that will not only remove this 2nd class thing going on, but will also promote the freedom of men to be who they are, not some media created Marlboro Man, allowing them to live their lives more openly, more honestly, being a better partner and nurturer, and perhaps, just perhaps helping to save this planet from the mess we've gotten ourselves into. If they enjoy it, women should do it. Female 26% , sexual experimentation 23% , shock value 22% , and obtaining resources like money or alcohol 16% rounded out the list. Not to mention how alienating it would be for other ppl present. I think women should kiss other women only if it makes them feel good, and not to impress or get the attention of others. To truly understand these behaviors, not to mention bridge the gender issues gap, we need to move beyond this power struggle mentality. Is this something you want to do or not? Would love to hear what Dr.
We may be human, but we're still animals. A new paper published in began to examine these titillating questions. Nice for the leaving one as she finds her own way, but leaves the other in a slow moving train wreck. Meaning it is not something they would normally do, or are afraid of doing. There's no reason to keep your kisses to just the lips.
So they get maybe a 20% chance of being gay thought from others, but men, unless they stay in a narrowly prescibed box, if they do any of these things, 80% or more of the time they'll be thought gay. However, I suspect this would not be the case for men. Women are not aroused from watching men interact sexually with one another. That move left women with more rights if you want to call it that, and perhaps higher pay and more opportunities. We are just as harsh as we complain about men being.
Kissing is one of the hottest ways to set the scene between two sexy stars who are about to suck and fuck each other into bliss. It was difficult as a young adult not giving into the those pressures. Thanks again for your thoughtful comment. The majority of the women I have dated both feminine and masculine looking alike have previously been married or else had children with a man. I guess it depends on why you do it, but I don't see girls kissing girls or getting on a catwalk as necessarily degrading. Then girls shrug their shoulders and say that kissing a girl is no big deal, it is just fun, it doesn't mean anything.