I wish all of you couples happiness, we all deserve it: I love my Mufasa and am thankful for him everyday. So although you may be mature for your age, to a 33-year old, you would lack maturity and experience. I think it would be foolish of me to not date simply because of our age difference. Be careful especially careful if he's a guy who's a great charmer or good with words to sway you, and try to find what he's in this for and whether you guys share any common things which are enough to sustain a long relationship together. Everyone says we are a good looking couple too. Just to be clear I am the 30yrold female and he is the 19yrold male. I only ask for understanding as i am in a very fragile state mind and heart.
Given the circumstances, do you think it matters? That being said, they can't always keep up with me, and, as a college student, we may be compatible in raw intelligence but not in life experience. But I can input that you need to be aware of his and your motives. Yes of course i am scared. If anyone is in my position I suggest you wait til they get older. He has just decided to end the relationship as his strict french parents won't approve if we take it further.
You and your new baby are his life now. For the record, when my brother met Quakerboy he guessed he was 23— in reality he had just turned 18 and I was 17. I'm 30 and he's 19, and we broke up 10 days ago. Just be cautious and don't give away anything too soon. Anonymous · 09 Jun 2005I am 32 and my boyfriend is 28 and we work fine. I know our age difference is a challenge, but that's all it is.
He soon moved in with me and my boys. To say the only reason a man would date a 19 year old would be to take advantage of them or because they are childish is ignorant and judgemental. Realize that he might need a little more time If you date a younger man you must understand what you have signed on for. Anonymous Ok so i have to say im 45 my bf is 24 and im in love. A close friend just married a woman 19 years older and they both are in dreamland! I've been oddly calm and I know that if things are meant to be they will be. Our honesty is of a level I never have experienced with other lovers- no secrets whatsoever. If he turns out to be a great guy and you wind up together, then it was worth the risk.
One thing would concern me, tho'. He is so respectful of all of the achievements I have, sweet and very loving…he also talks me up so much to his friends as though I'm a princess I like to think it's not just because I'm older and have done more, but still…. And in fact have, though in that case I was the older one in the relationship by 3 years. Also, remember that age is not an excuse You need to be realistic. If they still support you, you need to respect whatever rules they might have. I got lucky in that he more than happy to do so, and calm any fears my parents may have about the age difference.
It is possible for people to marry young and have it work. . I finally agreed to go out with him on a date two years later in hopes that he would get over his infatuation and move on to someone his own age. Did not mention anything to my fellow co-workers and kept it a secret! If you liked this, check out:. From my personal experience, women in our age group pay attention to guys way older than us for the first 30 years of our life, so perhaps a guy in his late 20s just wants the chick who pays attention to them in return.
It might as well be he's 19 and you're 80! Our relationship ended after 5months, him being 22 and I being 35. I love him, he makes me feel good, and I know that I make him so happy. We are excellent friends — good, good friends — but I'm a realist. I would often feel that he has a younger outlook on life than me. In the service of being fair, if she does not throw a temper tantrum, let her know that she can stay only under some very strict rules of conduct. Because he is so young I know that he needs to be free to decide and experience life.
It Is hard enough to find someone you are compatible with. You can read about me , peruse the archives and read popular posts. I was always concerned about the age gap, and I was right to be. He acts an complete fool whenever I am out of his sight…. I really was a late bloomer in everything. The title is The Groomsman and I'm at about 300 pages now.
Pray for me to keep my sanity on this journey! God placed him in my life for a reason and Im running…. She get a job and start paying rent, the amount of which you are to decide, C. I never feel like he's younger, unless I start contemplating the numbers, because he holds my hand firmly and takes control of things in a well balanced and considerate way. All these reassurances I read only contribute to the awkward feeling that it's notable. And how you feel about each other, not what other people think! I have been with men of varying different ages over the years. If anyone can relate, i would appreciate a comment. I wish people would stop criticizing each other just because they don't understand or try to see it from the other view.