There are many single mothers, as myself, whose dream of happily ever after was stolen from us by promises of forever which turned out to be lies. And one more thing: for many of us, we chose to become moms as a single person. There's this hoe who used to be a waitress at a restaurant I used to work at whom I've been following on social media for quite some time. There are things about me I don't expect a partner to really understand, and likewise, I don't expect to understand everything about my partner. I also can back my information up with News stories, articles from objective sources YouTube Clips from other men, and even talk shows like Maury Povich, Jeremy Kyle, Dr.
Depression, suicide, drug abuse, jail and psychiatric medications are all more common in populations of children raised by single mothers. You talk about learning from mistakes and moving on, right? I Love how you try to deflect from the issue of single motherhood. I am guessing that the older children help her out with the younger children. I myself have 6 children and would have one a year if I could. Why would another man be a such threat to you? If you can swing a vacation sans kids every now and then, that's not selfish, that's just seizing and important opportunity to restore your mental health.
She ignored it and pretended theior actions were about soemthing else ofcourse. Yes, I want to be a mother and I feel strongly that even alone I would be able to raise a great kid. I say good for you for admitting up front that you don't want to be involved with a single mother. Worse, when the decent brothers came back from Nam, they got next to no support from their women and their communiites. First man I've dated or brought into the house since the separation. You can definitely do better than her.
Your needs no longer exist. I understand your desire to want a child, I do. Everything you said is true man, and the anonymous poster said it as well. Posting here is a privilege. I mean just settle for,and accept any and everything. She made her bed, now let her lie in the wet spot.
Once she has you, meaning, once she ropes you into developing a relationship with her child, you will move to the very end of her priority list. Additionally your post denies the fact there are many kinds of mothers and fathers out there — you get mothers who play roughhouse with the kids and fathers who do tea parties. Focus on achieving goals larger than yourself and not worrying about your situation with your mother, as much as possible. Actually, a couple of kids from college once said they wanted to be parents together, without being in a relationship. It subverts some tropes about the popular high school athlete, the misunderstood nerd, and the typical heroine of these movies. Then, as time sets in, she will start to unfold her plan.
I said all that to say that not all single mothers fit your description. Because it's a free Country, and that's your preference. I don't believe you can put all single moms in the same category, just like i would never put all men in the same category. The South Bronx is the Single mother capital of New York City. If the mother is doing what is best for her baby one of the defining marks of maternal love , she will part with her baby so that it will have the future God intended for him or her to have. Violating any of these rules will result in moderator action. A lot of these dudes want to fight over her.
We feel isolated and lonely. If your mother is selfish, let her know the specific ways she treats you that you dislike and tell her that if she does not change you will not be able to be around her or treat her like a mom anymore. Isn't there more to it all? They are the worst kind of women out there and can sometimes be worse than feminist activists. So, seriously, what do you want me to do here? Being watched by a family member who could be doing other things with their time? No specifying majority demographics or excluding minority groups based on demographics. I was married to a man who choked me and smothered me and then killed our family dog in front of our daughter - and by no means was I going to stay with a man like that.
For example, you may find that you really calm down by listening to a specific song. It's obvious you and other men who agree with you have been hurt, but in all those your description of single moms I don't see where you ever described what makes you a real man. However, I would say that is no more than 8-10% of the population of single moms. There is a difference in women, just like in men, who handle situations as an adult or handle it as a immature adult. You deserve better than a single mom at your age. They can't help but do so.
It makes people pay attention to them. The Old Testament story of the two harlots who both had babies and one died in the night comes to mind 1Kings 3. As a published author, when delivering a message to your audience, deliver positive messages and solutions that make your readers want more. When I was 19, I met a woman who had a kid. I don't advise any man to go out here and take care of another man's children. You have a dad in your life and you act like this? My point about that is that I don't need financial support.