In general looks will attract first, but personality rules in the end. Make sure your speaking voice is loud enough to have a conversation from across the room. As long as you are a decent person, you are beautiful to me and a lot of people that care about you. And you wonder if you smell or if you look homeless or both. Give yourself the chance to grow more and to become the person you're still meant to be.
At some point, it also becomes infectious. The first step that I think would be helpful is to treat yourself as if you were your own kid. At this point I might as well go the Hollywood route and use them as commodities cause in reality that's all they are anyways. The first type is the chubby fat, and believe it or not a lot of opposite sex people love chubby people. Men are not attracted to clowns.
Secondly, nothing is impossible, you can try to become physically fit by working out, exercise, eat healthy and by trying to remain as much happy as you can. . It makes you feel great about yourself, ready for anything the day can throw your not-ugly way. I bet that others have made you think that you aren't good enough. All the houses I see on other blogs are huge and perfectly designed and landscaped.
Girls less than 5 feet can always wear high heels and find a shorter guy. Better start work on reversing those bad vibes and reaching a higher vibrational level as soon as humanly possible. Andrew held the lattice so I could attach it with some wood screws. If you would like to loose weight, there are many programmes that can support you through this- but never do it for someone else or feel you have to do it to please other people. It could be a large nose, or aggressive piercings or unusual hair. That means that if you are a raging beauty that everybody agrees is beautiful, you will get less interest from most men than women who have some slightly weird feature that sets them apart. If you are thinking just for a sec about what to say, then you are in trouble.
If you don't like being fat, then do something about it. If you want, you can combine both and have the best of both worlds. Things like 'Your hair looks lovely today' or 'This shirt does really suit you', similar stuff well first of all just try to love your self the way you are or at least stop thinking you are the only fat and ugly person in the world. The remaining 40% is social competence and talent. And the entire back wall of said elevator was comprised of a mirror, perfectly cleaned and spotless so you could analyze yourself in as much horrifying detail as your heart desired.
This applies equally to joint partnerships, taking on investors and affiliate partners. I had really big teeth, a big fringe. Which may explain lack of attention. I once got onto an elevator whose lighting was something like a morgue, only with a slightly more pronounced greenish tinge. And I hope its chubby fat ðŸ˜Š It depends on how you define yourself. Likewise, if strangers are generally cold around you or don't give you the time of day, you're probably ugly. Be nice, be confident, and have fun! Of course, this is within reason and it does not apply to every circumstance; especially for things that can cause harm.
I try to ask myself what about myself I am not liking in the mirror, and if it is even something I could change. You are ugly, and that is that. However, most people make a life not based on looks, but on attributes such as intelligence, hard work, a keen eye for detail, creativity, or the like. Baron: Although I wasn't lookin for any compliments, thank you very much for the nice words. The singer was diagnosed with a heart defect as a child and suffered a minor stroke when she was 18. I want to see Lord of the Rings monster cosplay with no makeup required.
You need to do everything in your power to keep people looking everywhere except your face. Face Large eyes, Full lips, small cute sharp noses, clear skin, nice thin eyebrows that bend in a curve An ugly face would have Freckles, acne, small eyes, angry large or bushy eyebrows, large noses, thin purse lips. I'm not too sure this helped me. I want to see ugly, goddammit, and that was not ugly. She was witty and charming and full of energy.
However, be warned that not everyone finds such behavior appealing and you might turn off a handful of people around you. Even if you are not good looking I ll suggest that you should be confident enough. I personally don't like curly hair, but some guys do. Likewise you should also try to be a little less shallow yourself. Fruit and yogurt helps, and try to stay away from more unhealthy foods such as cake, candy, ice cream, etc. So it's really a big deal to most girls that they outwardly look their best so they will somewhat compare to the rest of society, and what society expects out of them.
A sense of humor, intelligence and charm are all part of the social competence equation. It's bad juju and quite a douchey maneuver. Thoughtful and funny go a long way. But even in its vanity, falling into a moment of questioning how desirable or appealing you are is a perfectly human thing. Again, it is acceptable to some degree to hate yourself.